Break up

A relationship breakup, usually referred to as a breakup, occurs when the two parties involved decide to terminate their intimate relationship. In slang, this act is popularly called, “dumping someone” when the process is initiated by one of the involved party. Why Do People Break Up? Cheating Cheating or infidelity is the leading cause of most breakups. Men and women cheat for reasons best known to them. Most cases of cheating started with a seemingly innocent friendship. It’s really hard to rebuild a relationship after cheating. Financial infidelity Money controls everything. Everything ranging from expenses to financial goals to spending habits causing everyday complaints can end a relationship. Financial infidelity is one of the highest causes of divorce, after infidelity. Lack of communication Communication defines a healthy relationship. The inability to communicate effectively can destroy a beautiful affair. Being unsupportive If partners cannot support each other when down or stressed by some life events, then the relationship isn’t worth it and it’s heading to the rocks soon. How To Avoid A Breakup Remove the thoughts of breaking up The idea that you’ll be a better person without your partner can destroy your motivation to make the relationship work. Keeping in mind that breaking up is a “NO, NO” can strengthen the bond in your relationship. Always respect your partner Your partner is the best and that’s why you fell in love with them in the first place. The best way you prove it is by showing them some respect. Improve your communication Nothing can substitute those regular talks and gossips between lovers. When there is sharing of thoughts and feelings, the bond between partners grows stronger. Partners should set aside some time every day to just discuss together. Be supportive Do your best to give your partner what they need most. Even if they don’t open up on their needs, find a way to figure it out. And if you’re unsure, just ask! Read less